elements of a secure marriage

1. Happiness in the marriage
2. Feeling like there is a team partnership involved
3. Caring about your partner and feeling cared about
4. Communicatiing well
5. Being affectionate and feeling satisfacorily sexually involved with your spouse
6. Sharing common values nd goals
7. Being proud of your spouse and feeling that your spouse is proud of you.
8. Being able to disagree with each other withot being personally offended
9. Having no unmet / untreated psychoses in the relationship